Judith Hayes
Lord Byron
Science – and therapy
Psychotherapy, on the other
hand, is not science. It’s hard to say
what it is. All too often therapy,
supposedly curing by talk, is a bitch session; the therapist is a paid
listener, because no one in the client’s world will listen to his/her
complaints.
Insurance companies
eventually caught on to this racket and started holding therapists responsible
for goals and outcomes. Usually this
means helping the client to better cope with his/her situation (because it’s typically
unchangeable), perhaps helping the less sophisticated clients understand their
problems, or enabling the client to deal more constructively with difficult
people.
“Modern psychology has a serious God problem. America is a deeply spiritual
country. More than half of American say
religion is ‘very important’ to them, and more than 90 percent profess a belief
in a higher power. Yet psychology, as a
scientific endeavor, has done almost nothing to understand how spiritual
beliefs shape psychological problems or affect treatment.”
Let’s all get spiritual
Let’s first stipulate that “spiritual” (i) is taken to be a good thing (note the praising adjective deeply, as opposed to, say, rabidly or fanatically); (ii) can mean ANY interest in imaginary supernatural entities, whether Christian, Jewish, Hindu, Sufi, Hawaiian, Native American (to New Agers, the last three, and all native cultures, are VERY spiritual).
So spirituality is a very big
tent: all you have to do is invest yourself heavily in an imaginary belief
system, the older the better. In the
context of the article, Cook refers only to mainstream American religions.
Voice of reason
This approach goes under
various names: cognitive/behavioral, rational/emotive, and others. For most neurotics, Albert Ellis’ list of Irrational
Thoughts is all the therapy they need.
Debt of truth
The therapist owes the client
the golden nugget of truth and insight – else what is the client paying
for? (I know, the right to gripe and
have an interested listener. If only
clients knew how the therapist’s mind wanders as they prattle on.).
That’s why this atheist has
serious problems with the thrust of Cook’s article: the solution to the “God
problem” is “spiritually integrated” therapy.
My 2nd wife was “deeply” into this – this craven pandering to
the client’s fantasies.
Religion and therapy
Oh, yeah, maybe it’s a
band-aid, a psychological mind-trick.
Thus Cook cites the example of a therapist who might encourage the
client to think about all the things that God has given you, and this gratitude
exercise will help reduce anxiety.
How does God help? Can’t I just list the things I’m grateful
for, without crediting God?
Plus, every day, religious clients
bring their miseries to psychotherapists and ask why God would allow such a thing.
In dealing with evil and sorrow, again, God
is no help. He’s a hindrance. Didn’t he
make or let it happen? Such conundrums make
it harder, not easier for the believer to cope with the traumas that life deals
out.
“Meeting patients where they are”
Cook ends with the idea of
offering a treatment option to the deeply faithful [there’s that adjective
again – does the therapist have to first evaluate the level of the client’s
fanaticism/fundamentalism? – AMP]. It’s
about the field of psychology shedding its prejudices and preconceptions and
returning to the first principles of therapy: meeting the patients where they
are.”
This is why I could never be
a therapist. I would want to deal with
the underlying delusion, religion itself.
A religious client would leave before the first session was over.
Pandering and faking
And what if the client is a Hindu or a Sikh or a Wiccan or a Druze? Must the therapist bone up on every faith, every imaginary friend of every client and play along with it? How can you look yourself in the mirror if you do that?
Is the goal of therapy to
dissolve delusions – or to encourage them?
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